Well it's been a good discussion. Since I started this thread I decided to try Rock N Roll Absolute Dry to see how it would perform, and I've found it to work really good, though the chain wear issue hasn't been answered yet, but so far so good. What I've found out about this lube so far is that it keeps my chain cleaner longer than other lubes I've tried, the chain is quiet. Even though it's a dry oil, which is typically bad if it rains because it washes off faster then wet lubes, but I've gone through rain with it and the darn stuff didn't wash off, I did relube once I got home because I wasn't sure about it, but the chain made no noise after a 30 minute rain; so I applied it my touring bike and the results have been very favorable so far.
But that test on the touring bike came to a sad ending when a car sideswiped me sending me crashing into a concrete barrier that I flipped over the top of the barrier and onto a concrete sidewalk, the accident bent my fork about an inch back and the frame has about a 1mm bow on the top tube and a 2mm bow on the seat tube, so the bike is toast, somehow I survived the crash with nothing but bloody scraped up knees and shoulder, while the helmet was destroyed the head inside of it was not, fortunately I had enough sense to let go of the handlebars when hit the barrier so I could flip over it and that worked like a charm enabling me to roll on impact with the sidewalk. The person in the car took off of course, and there were no witnesses that saw the plate number. So my once almost new condition 85 Schwinn Le Tour Luxe is gone, I'm going to strip the components off of it and put them on a 87 Dawes I have just a frame and fork for, then sell it because the frame is a bit large for me; along with selling a 84 Schwinn Voyageur which is also a tad too large, so that little bit of money will go toward a new touring bike plus I get to thin out the herd a bit. Those two bikes were dumpster finds, both were in decent shape, the Voyageur was covered in some sort of grayish goo that took 4 cleanings to get off, but underneath the goo the paint was pretty good, I just have to replace the cables on it and it's good to be sold.
Anyway back to chains, typically on my non touring bikes I get also average 10,000 to 13,000 miles on my chains, and I don't buy expensive ones; the gear cluster will last 3 times longer than my chains do.