My most recent touring bike is 10 speed Shimano STI. Old one was 7 speed Shimano bar-end shifter. New one works perfectly all the time. I also have a couple other Shimano 10 speed STI bikes and a few 9 speed and 10 speed Campagnolo Ergo bikes. They all work pretty close to perfect too. 9 speed has zero advantages over 10 speed. They all work perfectly and last the exact same time.
Not sure, but 9 or 10 speed may be easier to find in stores or online, or not. Actually, 10 speed shifters are easier to find than 9 speed shifters. Finding 9 speed STI or bar-end shifters may be difficult. Only 9 speed road shifters Nashbar has are their own brand STI style shifters. Nashbar has 10 speed bar-end and/or STI from Shimano, SRAM, and their own brand. As 11 speed has become the new normal, its getting harder and harder to find the older stuff like 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 speed. 10 speed is still current.
Seems a bit odd to me to intentionally build a new bike with out of date components. I'm sure there are some people who will argue that 5 speed friction shifting bikes with 120mm spaced rear triangles are the most reliable. Why aren't you building a touring bike like that? If you were building a new house, would you NOT put a garbage disposer and NOT put a dishwasher in it? It would be more reliable without these electrical contraptions.