Hikerjer,
I guess it boils down to your comfort level and/or what makes you happy. So I would not say you disagree, you just have a different risk tolerance perhaps.
I totally get some people want to have lights on the chance they have to ride after night. Others weigh the chance of being REQUIRED to ride at night based on past experience. While I would not disparage someone who wants to take a light or whatever makes you happy, for me, after close to 40 years of loaded touring, I have had maybe 3 times I have ridden at night (not counting riding from a movie back to campground). Two of those times I intentionally rode at night but on full moon, clear nights, out in unpopulated areas on good roads. The other time I don't remember but I included an extra time to play it safe.
You should note however that I typically have no desire to ride when I can't see the countryside for that is a primary purpose I enjoy touring. Riding in a tunnel of light is not for me. YMMV.
My point is take what you want if it makes you happy but be sure to balance it out with all factors. I know a guy who brings a full-sized floor pump and a full-size folding lawn-chair just because he likes it better. He knows it slows him down a lit and is bulky but he prefers the positives to the negatives so he carries them.
Same with lights (or anything else), just weight the pros and cons and decide on factors that are important to you.
Tailwinds, John