I agree with the loaner suggestion at a bike shop. Great idea if you can find a line of saddles you're interested in and a shop that does a loaner bit.
I have a couple Selle Anatomica (like ZiZohn mentioned.) One is the new rubber one (I live in Seattle) and the other is a leather one. I had some water issues and broke one so was pretty happy about the rubber offer they have now. I like the saddles.
I also think that saddles can elicit the jihadi in all of us. Since everyone's self set up is different, everyone's saddle issues are different. And many have strongly held opinions on the topic!
I'm sure this isn't fair and I'm sure will elicit plenty of feedback here, here's what I've come to believe about saddles;
* They're never like sitting on the couch. If they are, I'm probably doing it wrong and will pay for my short period of comfort soon
* My rating scale goes from "this thing sucks and should be used for some medievil torture set up" to "this thing sucks less than the other one and doesnt bite my shorts when I'm trying to get back on the saddle at a stop light"
* I'm sorta shooting for 60% happy out of the box. The balance (for me) is down to fit on the bike & mobility of the human involved.
So, what I would do is what you've done. 1) spend a ridiculous amount of time on the internet looking for the answer to my life's seat based problem. 2) Talk to my bike nerd friends (who typically have opinions about things like this that are far outside of the norms of reasonable) 3) Settle on one or two and try them. I'd try to get 10 hours in on the saddle, make sure I've got height re-calibrated for the new saddle, etc before passing ultimate judgement. 4) Be a little bit Buddhist; "don't get attached" to any particular saddle. Try to stay open minded.
And, given that any saddle is only one part of a three point (at least) issue; (saddle, bike fit, human mobility) I'm sorta shooting for 60% happy out of the box.
Legit shorts make a difference here too. You probably know that
I'm sure you're close to joining the ranks of the bonafide saddle jihadists of one tribe or another
Happens