@ staehpj1
Thanks, all great observations.
Starting on familiar ground is a plus for us, especially for my wife. I know quitting will be easier, and we talked about it, and we are setting a midway point before quitting is considered an option, aside from serious injury. After 1,000 miles it is no longer a fitness challenge but more of a mental challenge. Rules when I hiked the AT were never quit when it is raining and never quit when you are alone.
I know when we bike tour or hike now we will always skip an occupied campsite if there is a chance to find an empty one further up the trail. We like our solitude.
I think this forum, and watching as many YouTube documentaries as I can find, has really helped motivate my wife. We are already route planning and reviewing our equipment (owned versus would love to own), etc. I would love to find more videos. The couple from Iceland had a good mix of reality and joy. Other videos are all the highlights and none of the hardship and some are all hardship and no highlights.
I am glad I finally started to use this forum. I used a similar forum preparing for my AT hike and "knew" other hikers before the start that I got to meet on the trail, sometimes after 1,500 miles.
when I slowed down to smell the roses.
We have lived around the country and traveled extensively, so for me Iowa and Nebraska are two of the three states (Hawaii the third) that I have not been in. Keeping the route in a form that is "doable" is extremely important. Showing flexibility and finding routes around areas my wife feels nervous about has really helped get her onboard and hopefully keep her onboard. Adding things like the Katy trail, that has been on our list for years, but poses logistical challenges for such a short ride, also helped close the deal.