Scott, welcome to the ACA Forums!
I have a RedShift suspension stem along with the Thudbuster ST (current generation) on my main touring bike. For reference, I typically tour on up to 25% non-pavement (dirt, crushed gravel, gravel) and 75+% pavement depending on the specific tour.
I enjoy and recommend the RedShift Stem. The stem takes the "buzz" out of chip seal, larger pavement cracks, and pea-size gravel so I like it. Not super helpful in full gravel but that can be expected as it is not really designed to take on 1+" gravel but I would think that it would does some.
While I enjoy the Thudbuster ST when it is not slipping, I can not recommend the updated Thudbuster as the new seat bracket "barrel" slips fairly frequently (multiple times a day), especially on gravel roads when you want it most. Thudbuster replaced the original plastic barrel with an "updated" alloy one but it still slips, probably because the barrel is smooth and does not have the little "teeth" to prevent slipping. The LT version appears to have the same barrel bracket while the eeSilk seems to have the traditional seat bracket. If the Silk does NOT use the barrel bracket, then it is probably pretty nice but only has 35mm of travel which is not that much but would work if you ride on a lot of chip seal roads.
The old Thudbuster was nice and secure but don't know if you can get elastomers for it and if so for how long. Also, the old one may have been heavier, just not sure.
Tailwinds, John