NO. Even though they are "boutique" wheels, they may be more than strong enough to handle loaded touring. But, these Bontrager wheels, like any wheel, are not indestructable, and therefore you need to be able to find easily replaced parts in any bike shop. Get normal 36 spoke heavy rims with Shimano hubs. Every bike shop will have replacement spokes. Every bike shop will have replacement axles and/or cones and/or ball bearings. Every bike shop will know how and have the tools to rebuild and true the wheels. I would not be surprised if the Bontrager wheels require special spoke nipples and definitely require special spokes. Just get plain basic simple wheels.
One thing about thicker and heavier spokes is it only matters at the J bend at the hub. All spokes break at the bend. Spokes never break in the middle. The thickness at the bend is dictated by what will fit through the spoke hole in the hub. DT makes some extra thick 13 gauge (DT Alpine I think is the name) spokes that just barely fit through the hub spoke holes.
I'd also suggest just riding the wheels that came on the bike and seeing if they are as bad as you assume. They are probably just fine and will serve you many years until many hundreds of dollars start burning a hole in your pocket.